
Many churches, synagogues, mosques, and temples have a commitment to children and families. If you are already part of a spiritual community, see what they have to offer. Caring committees of some kind are usually organized to help people with meals and support when they are sick, have new babies, or in times when they need extra support. There might be child care programs, access to young adults or others who might babysit, and groups for new families. If your community doesn’t have many resources consider asking the pastor or others to connect you with other young families in the congregation as well as to make a connection to a sister community that has resources.
Not part of a community but interested in a spiritual home? This might be a really good time to check out different groups in your community. Look on their websites for activities and supports for families. If you have a friend who is attending a faith community that they love, considering going for a visit there with them. Look to see if there are other young families. It is important to find a place where you feel you belong. It might take a number of visits and some time to find the right place, but it could be very worth it!
Don’t be afraid to ask for help and support! Most faith communities value relationship, service and babies.
Conflicted about faith? That is normal too. If your partner is from a different faith than you, there are still communities of faith who welcome all faiths. Do you have bad memories of your own faith community – no pressure. Let this option go!